Sympathy Message Generator
Gentle words when you don't know what to say.
Your sympathy message
We have written three to start. Change the name, relationship or tone and press the button for more.
How to use the sympathy message generator
Choose who it's for
Pick the relationship so the message fits: a boss gets a different wish from a best friend.
Add a name and tone
Type their name and choose heartfelt, funny or faith-based.
Copy, share or save
Copy the text, send it on WhatsApp, or press "Make image" for a card.
Sympathy message examples
Here are some of the sympathy messages the generator uses. Copy one as it is, or press the button above to add a name.
I'm so sorry for your loss, my dear friend. I'm here for you, whatever you need.
Thinking of you and your family at this hard time. Sending love, my dear friend.
There are no right words, my dear friend. Please know you are not alone.
I'm so sorry for your loss, my dear friend. May God give you comfort and strength.
Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un. May Allah grant your loved one Jannah and give you sabr, my dear friend.
May the Lord hold you close and give you peace during this time of grief.
How to write a sympathy message
There are no perfect words after a loss. Saying something kind is better than saying nothing.
- Keep it short and sincere.
- Use the name of the person who died if you knew them.
- Offer specific help, like bringing a meal.
Want to browse instead? See our full list of sympathy & condolence messages.
Frequently asked questions
What do you say to someone who lost a loved one?
"I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm here for you, whatever you need." Simple words are enough.
Why is there no funny tone?
Humour can hurt at a time of grief, so this generator only offers heartfelt and faith-based messages.
Is this generator free?
Yes. It is free, needs no sign-up and runs in your browser, so the names you type are never saved.